Wednesday, August 25, 2010

Being a daughter and having a daughter:)

Being a daughter and having a daughter:)

Part 1:
Sometimes happiness comes to us in small packages.Its the same thing that you feel when you realize about the child your going to nurture.She is your little friend,a wonderful gift and happiness unbound. At different stages of life as a girl we go through different emotions.Being a little daughter we share our little secrets with our mom, respect the pampering that our dad gives.We grow along with the growing relationship of our parents,they cry when we do and smile when we do. As a sister we share our thoughts,we tell our desires to our sibling(s).They love us so much that they get sad when we are unhappy.And life moves on.We grow big enough that there comes a day when we have to bid adieu and go off.We become a wife,a stage where we take oaths to share our life. We start a new relationship where we learn understand and live for and with each other.A point where our only desire is to see other person happy and just wish that the other person also sees us happy.A life mixed with giving and taking.You move on with your loved one to nurture a new one,you become a parent(a MOTHER in specific).Its from now that we learn the word "our responsibility". We bond together to nurture a little one.Being together requires us to take decisions based on us both just like how our parents would have done when they got such an opportunity.Its an 18 years of united love,care and decisions that the little one should experience.As a mother its always expectations that you want to do something for the baby.If your wish goes unsaid or unheard you feel bad,but you realise that as a mother and as a parent your solely responsible for your kid to be looking at the outside world.You were the passage that brought her to life and you should always remain like her bridge bonding with ,her helping her make her own loving and truthful decisions.Its great to feel that you are mother and its even more great to understand that even when the world around turns down your views, for atleast 18 years from now you have a little big one whose going to be the best friend in your life.Its enchanting to watch your little one. Parents are the world for her and as she grows she will learn to get her own space and pour all the love to people around her.Its great to remember that your her true friend for life from now , so be loving to her even if it costs you lots of hurdles to take.

6 comments:

  1. That's a good Presentation of being in both the worlds and you can proudly beam " Now I have the shoe on the other foot too " . The layout of the blog is impressive .
    All the Best

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  2. @Sriram: yes indeed its both gud and bad to be on both sides of the river;)

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