Hate Neglection,Love Recognition:)

Neglection:

These days I dont know why I have got this syndrome of writing about stuffs that value loads of emotions. But it is always soothing to write about intricate emotions because it gives you a mental satisfaction. Neglection is a syndrome that affects not one but loads of people. Now this time Ill quote a true incident, I was having a casual discussion with my friend, as she was typing a mail to all our team mates regarding a birthday party. I was looking at her window as she was composing the mail. It was a great mail. As she completed the mail, she typed the names in the message I was watching it casually, and finally when she was done I noted a pattern, the names that she typed first where the ones she knew very well and were her best friends and the name she typed last were the ones she knew less and were just friends. I also noted that she had left few names she had fwelt were not worth. I would probably do more research on this ascending order syndrome as I call because I just loved it.But this one is fine if we are just looking at a normal level,but sometimes this leads to feelings of neglection.Like if you are sending a mail to all your loved ones and if I apply this one it will lead to hurting results. But that would be good research to do. Someay I would love to do this research, to read people's mind through emails send to list. With this one Ill get into the real neglection process. Everyday we neglect so many things so many people, so many dreams.......While on one side we kind of neglect someone on otherside we select a few. We bias our decisions to the few selected. But I consider the height of neglection for example in instances like u had strived hard for 10 months to an year to get a project, but finally your manager takes all the credit and on top of that he decides the list of people for the project intiation party while you sit at a corner and watch things happen. I tthink this is the hardest thing to watch. I would also think one day when I manage things at any level my decisions shouldnt be just mine for things that I dont own. If it was someone's strenous effort I would like to give enough recognition and support to the views of that person than I would do to mine. That does not only bring happiness to that person but also gives me satisfaction that I didnt hurt or snatch someone's rights to prove my happiness. I think if I could love someone for their work and recognise and respect for what they desire, give enough respect to their views then I would atleast own the word homo if not sapiens. It is in these simple things that I will be able to find happiness. God resides only in those hearts that respect someone's views for what they have struggled more than their own. Someday I hope I atleast get closer to this simple philosophy and apply it to every move of my life.

Hate Neglection

Love Recognition:)

Todays motto:)